None of your Business

What the jayus is up with people and their big fecking mouths… I had another smart comment from someone.. and its a question I’ve been asked a number of times, when I am asked what ages are the kids I say 12, 5, 2 and 5 months. I usually get “Ohh that means trouble”, But actually, have been asked on a number of occasions. “Are they all the same Father”

Now number 1. It’s none of their business who the fecking kids’ father is.

Number 2.  So what if they are different fathers. What is it to them. Maybe I don’t even know who the fathers are. Who gives a crap about my sexual history.

Number 3.  If you need to say something that might hurt someone’s feels think about it and don’t fucking say it.

I met my husband 15 years ago and got pregnant 13 year’s ago. I was going out with him for nearly 2 years when I got pregnant.  It was just before my 20th birthday. Not Ideal but I wouldn’t change anything for the world.  A lot of people said it wouldn’t last between us and someone actually said to my mother that I probably don’t know who the father is. We enjoyed life with our little family, I was the young age of 21 buying my first home and 24 getting married. We were just not in a right place of our lives to have another baby, that’s why there is a seven-year gap. Not a huge gap I have friends that have 16-year gap between the kids.

I didn’t need to justify myself to anybody but I am proud of the fact I started so young and am still here sitting on the couch of my own home with my four beautiful kids around me and the boy I met at the door of Ahern’s sitting beside me looking at me, still making my heart flutter.

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